David's mind

There's a young man I know who happened to tell me a story. He said, when he was young, he had a help leaving with them growing up.  This help was always the one who bathed all of them as children,  and whenever it got to his turn,  he'd tell the rest of the kids to go and put on pomade on their body while she's left alone with him in the bathroom.  Once others were gone,  she'd remove her skirt and pull down her pants,  then take his penis and push it into her vagina. Thing is,  as small as he was,  he never understood what he was doing,  but when this acts continued, he started getting used to it and he started enjoying it the more. Before he knew what he was doing,  he went from nodding to,  "don't tell mummy" to being the one to tell the other siblings, "go and rub pomade". Within years of doing this,  he got very addicted to the act,  so much that when the help later left the house,  he almost ran crazy mentally....

Hello David,  I understand people don't use names when writing to you,  so just call me Kay. I'm not sure if I'm complaining as much,  but any help you offer would not be denied. The main purpose of writing to you is because I wish to share my story for everyone to really hear, and at the end, I need some advice on what to do. Some people think they have problems, enough to die for,  but I hope mine changes their heart. My sad story started when I was 15 years old, my mother died in an accident as she was travelling home (Kogi) from buying goods at Enugu. We were just two and my younger brother was 9 years at the time. After this tragedy,  my brother was taken to leave with my aunt and I was left alone with my dad. The loss of my mum got into my dad a whole lot and affected him mentally, we thought it was something we could deal with but after some months,  he went really wild. Everybody stared to abandon him to this sickness, but I loved him a lot and I st...

  Dear reader,  It's been a while, hasn't it? Trust me,  I've missed every part of this just as I'm sure you have, but I'm glad I could write again and have you still here for me to read what I have. Since my last post till now,  a whole lot has come up in the country and the height of it is the COVID-19 pandemic which has put us in a very difficult situation in the country.  But it's a phase,  we'll get through it.  Within this whole period,  I knew I had to say something.  I've been feeling that itch everyday and today I've decided there are four basic things I wish to talk about. This article gives my heart to the surviving youths of this era and I hope this advice helps you as you push through life.  Start thinking productively.   I've come to realise, that this situation is not actually a set back,  I see it as a turning point for lots of things.  What we see as suffering right now,  is just people trying to adju...